Roots & Fruits

For immigrant daughters ready to stop feeling split in two between their family's needs and their own and start feeling confident and secure in their lives WITHOUT losing a sense of connection to their culture. For immigrant daughters who have tried it all but still feel fragmented and confused but want to feel like integrated, empowered women. 

i'm ready to start!

Does it feel like everyone gets prioritized over you?

 

You're a loving daughter, sister, friend, colleague, partner ... and are constantly giving to others.

It's time to take care of yourself WITHOUT alienating your family or culture.

It's time to see that taking care of you is the missing piece to experiencing more peace.

Imagine a life where....

  • You are at peace about the areas in which your family's wants and yours don't align

  •  You have complete confidence in your decisions & no longer operate on fear and guilt

  • You have a clear understanding of how the past impacts you, so you can create the future you want and deserve
  •  You know exactly what YOU want and value in life and are actively pursuing it  
  •  You can handle even your intense emotions with more conviction and grace  
  •  You feel closer to your family than you ever have before
  •  You are clear about why you do what you do, and can make more nourishing choices for yourself
  • You feel a sense of relief because you're better able to accept the things you can't change
  •  You walk around with your help held high knowing your worth and what you bring to the world

 

YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO IT ALONE.

 

YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIGURE IT ALL OUT.

 

So much of our current healing happens individually but for us collectivist girlies, that just doesn't fit. I have been hearing from you how much you are longing for a community of support. This is how I found healing - through the words and hearts of other daughters of immigrants. You also want a different perspective than the one you have gotten from Western psychology or your cultural background because neither of these fully fit for you. You need something else, something you don't yet have a model or path for

 

AND THAT'S WHERE ROOTS & FRUITS COMES IN...

sign me up!

Are you are ready *stop* feeling...

  • Pulled between your family's needs/wants and your own

  • Afraid of upsetting others and making a mistake

  • Frustrated by how to set boundaries that actually work

  • Defeated by ending up in unhealthy relationships again and again

  • Ashamed by how little you understand about your mental health

  • Out of touch with what you actually want beyond what's expected

  • Confused and paralyzed about making big life decisions

  • Depleted because you can't seem to make self-care stick

  • Upset about your past and hopeless about the future

I'm ready for this

 

 ROOTS & FRUITS 

LIVE GROUP PROGRAM

 THIS IS THE GROUP YOU'VE BEEN LONGING FOR!


  

  • Weekly hour-long video sessions (x4) in a community of fellow daughters of immigrants where we unpack the complexities of culture, learn tangible skills, and support one another in the process of change

 

  • A group chat where we can be in relationship outside of session, supporting one another and keeping each other accountable for doing the work

 

  • Exclusive transformational exercises to help you make the “ah-ha”s that usher in new possibilities

 

  • Practical tools to help you understand your culture and individuality and integrate both in a way that’s healthy for you.

 

  • + CUSTOMIZED additions according to group needs!
i need this!

The Modules:

 

Module 1

Intergenerational, Historical, and Cultural Influences

UNDERSTANDING INTERGENERATIONAL TRAUMA
Explore the profound impact of intergenerational cycles that might be at play without your conscious knowledge. Unlock healing by bringing awareness to the patterns at play while learning how to create energetic boundaries so you can begin the work of cycle breaking.

 

Module 2

Childhood Factors

EMBRACING EMOTIONAL LITERACY
Delve into Emotional 101 as we guide you through the basics of understanding and navigating your emotions while acknowledging the emotional education you received from childhood. Start the journey of reparenting by cultivating self-awareness and laying the foundation for emotional healing.

 

Module 3

Relationship with Self

NURTURING YOUR INNER CHILD
Focus on reparenting your inner child as you explore the relationship between your past experiences and present behaviors. Dive deep into self-compassion and begin the process of healing childhood wounds, moving toward wholeness.

 

Module 4

Relationships with Others

ESTABLISHING BOUNDARIES AND VALUES
Learn the essential art of setting culturally-informed boundaries and align with your core values. Gain practical tools for translating your newfound self-awareness into healthy relationships and empowered living.

I'm ready for this

Our Schedule

We have two cohort options this time around: Either Wednesdays at 10 am PST or 4 pm PST!

(If you do not see an option below, know that that group is full and no longer available):

 

Meeting dates are as follows:

Wednesday, March 5th at 4 pm PST

Wednesday, March 12th at 4 pm PST

Wednesday, March 19th at 4 pm PST

Wednesday, March 26th at 4 pm PST

Sounds Great!

Who is

Dr. Pauline?

 

As a daughter of immigrants, this is the program I wish I had had in my adulthood. After over 13 years of working with hundreds of fellow daughters of immigrants as a psychologist with a successful group practice, I started compiling the most potent resources that catalyze transformation.

Going beyond therapy, this program transcends the therapy structures and barriers which contribute to children of immigrants not getting the transformation they want from therapy. I am able to show up as my FULL self and to support in the day-in and day-out struggles in a way I always craved. I am able to teach, guide and impart knowledge and skill in ways that traditional therapy does not leave room for.

Your Investment Options

3 Payments of

$400

$1200 in total for the entire program

Payments would be made over the course of 3 months.

Click here if you want to join the group meeting on

Wednesdays at 10 AM PST

i'm ready

3 Payments of

$400

$1200 in total for the entire program

Payments would be made over the course of 3 months.

Click here if you want to join the group meeting on

Wednesdays at 4 PM PST

i'm ready

What have people said about Roots & Fruits?

"I would do it all over again if I could." 

"Working through this program with Pauline was one of the hardest and rewarding experiences that I have ever experienced. Pauline helped me in was that I hadn’t thought was possible. With her help I realized that working through my trauma was important as well as finding out that yes, I was worth it. This program was a great opportunity, and I would do it all over again if I could." 

 "...the first time I spoke and felt like everyone could truly understand."

"This group was the first time I spoke and felt like everyone could truly understand. The comfort and power of that .. wow."

 "...we developed such a sense of community..."

"The Roots and Fruits group program helped me to really connect with other daughters of immigrants in a way that seemed so difficult before. Even though we all came from different backgrounds, we developed such a sense of community and sisterhood because we could see ourselves in each other.”

Frequently Asked Questions

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